Family and Blood Ties

In essence, I have come to find my blood family to be intermixed with lies, deceptions, and issues that go beyond blood relation; they are pinning me as the core of problems in the family, and I have done nothing to warrant that reaction.

Book Shelves and Comfort Achievements

All our marriage, others were accommodated, and we had to abide by the rules of others. It's strange; my husband and I are in our late 30s, and we feel like big kids playing house. This is new territory for us; we are relishing in being our own King and Queen of the house for once...

Now I Know…

This is an extension from I Am Who? The present economy is our worst enemy, and hardest teacher. It's the getting out there that's the challenge. The realistic life tends to get in the way as it takes the same amount of sacrifice to achieve our goals with our passions as it takes to just make a living and get by; sounds like a trade-off, doesn't it? 

I Am Who?

Soul Searching, a daring journey that so few of us take. It's not easy to fathom the results, and when they do arise, half the time, we are stumped, happier, or disappointed.

Missing Us…

They say blood is thicker than water, but I beg to differ. Blood colors water red, and for that, since all blood does the same thing to water, no matter what DNA is mixed in with it, Blood means nothing when it comes to biological family, and the family you choose to keep close. I choose love, first and foremost.

Life Continues: Still More Choices to Make

I tell ya, one such as myself, never imagined it would take so long to set up a house, as opposed to an apartment... I look around the house now, and the boxes and mess disappears, revealing to me what it will look like, fully furnished.

I Refuse to Apologize

I just felt it was a low blow to me that even an apology, or an acceptance of my having a human senility moment wasn't good enough. Just one picture... One sentence, and a close relationship is toast.

Regaining Control

...I've been out of sync, and have had no clue what's going on. I have not been in control of my schedule as I like to be, and I have felt all over the place for about a year now.

Paces and Spaces

The answer lies in self-exploration... Healing is not easy, and it was never meant to be... We are made to feel, so don't be afraid... Fear is a strong emotion, but don't let it take over; change it's chemistry.

She Left, Now what?

Children are not the only important beings out there. There are enough charities and programs to help children. Now, we need to help their future parents!

Hope and Love

Things are happening, people, and I suggested we send out love for one another today, as it is Valentine's Day after all.

Who Are You?

I certainly hope I'm not alone in seeing these patterns and changes, as I feel like I'm living in the Twilight Zone.


We all dread that news; ya know, the news where something unexpected happened to someone you know. Just yesterday, I was told news that sent chills up my spine all the way up to the hairline-